In Defense of the Pillow Princess
Bottoms, culturally, get shit on a lot for being lazy in the realm of sex dynamics. Frankly, I would like to task anyone who dismisses bottoming as the easy way out in sex or kink with asking any fisting, rope, wax, or impact bottom to describe the prep and post work they do after a scene and then see if they find bottoming "easy" or "lazy."
What’s An Orgasm, Anyway?
What is an orgasm, exactly?
If I want to be pedantic, I can drop the dictionary definition here, tell you a bunch of stuff about how it's a full-body wave of muscle spasms brought on by continuous genital stimulation and that it releases a lot of good feeling brain juice.
Eat the Moon, Then Give it Back
Content Warnings: Discussion of navigating potentially unhealthy desires, insecurity, possessiveness, BDSM and Kink,
Sometimes, there's a little black hole where my heart should be. It sucks in everything, every scrap of attention, affection, and care others pour into me, yet still it is hungry.
Finding A Path to Masculinity
In the past say, year or so, I've been seeing pushback against folks doing the hyperbole thing of "Men are Trash/Men are Bastards," making arguments that this is deeply harmful to men (and mascs) who are trying their best not to fall into spaces of toxic masculinity.
Which, yes, and---